Families on Whalers

A seagoing male society: Whaling was a male occupation that separated men and boys from their families for years. The excitement of the chase and the work of processing whales filled relatively few hours. Routine chores and carving scrimshaw from whalebone and teeth were not enough to prevent loneliness and boredom.

Mrs. Russell takes to the high seas: Families shared the loneliness of the whalemen. In 1822, Mary Hayden Russell, wife of Capt. Joseph Russell, and their young son, Charles, became the first family known to have joined a whaling voyage. Other families soon followed suit. A scholar has identified several hundred seagoing wives. Many preferred the discomforts of life at sea to years of separation.

Hen frigates: Although crewmen referred to a ship that carried a woman as a "hen frigate," they were often glad to have one aboard. On the Bark Powhatan, Caroline Mayhew cared for eight hands who fell ill with smallpox and navigated when her husband became sick. Mrs. Nathaniel Jernagan helped the crew put out a shipboard fire, while other wives were valued for spotting whales or calming their husbands.

A narrow world: Other than calling out "There she blows, " a wife was not allowed to participate in whaling. Most women cooked, sewed, washed clothes, educated their children, wrote diaries, or read. Others used music to fill the long hours.

Fleas and cockroaches, seasickness and mutiny: Whaling wives fought cockroaches and fleas, and often suffered seasickness during violent storms. A few found the crew unpleasant, while others experienced the dangers of a mutiny aboard ship.

The Gam
"The Gam," 1926 oil on canvas by Clifford W. Ashley.

Gamming: Gamming was a diversion for a wife, as well as the captain and crew. When whalers met at sea, the crews exchanged visits. The captain's wife was lowered from ship to whaleboat in a gamming chair and rowed to the other ship for a festive social occasion, visiting with the other captain's wife.

Refuges: During the mid-nineteenth century, the wives of missionaries, merchants, and whalers formed a community of American women in Hawaii. A captain's family might stop in Hawaii while his vessel went to the Arctic. Later, some familes wintered in the Arctic (go to Arctic Whaling for more information).

Babies: Wives sometimes stopped over in the Azores, on a Pacific island, or in a South American port, to give birth to babies conceived on the high seas. Other babies were born at sea.

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